This is Uncle Richard waving and smiling during his trip to New Mexico April 2008.
I lost my wonderful uncle. I can’t believe my S.F. uncle, Richard, passed away on Tuesday night, July 15th, at 6:30 pm California time. He was my Dad’s brother. Richard died of pneumonia. He was in a hospital and had been sick for a month. I just found out about him a week before his death when I received an unexpected e-mail from one of Dad’s relatives. Oh, I am going to miss him very much. I will never forget Richard. The last e-mail I received from Richard was 2 months ago. He was discussing the sunburn on his trips 3 months ago and the work at Muir Wood on the weekend of Memorial Day. Also, the last time I saw him in a person was on Thanksgiving week 1996 outside San Francisco.
I’ve decided to blog the story of Uncle Richard recently since he died because I am here to reminisce and tribute his life. Here it is:
When I was 13 yrs old while living in California with my family, Dad introduced me to meet relatives on his side in San Francisco on one weekend in March 1982. I first met Uncle Jack, his then wife, Christina, and their daughter, Kelly, at their home. Kelly was about my age at that time. And then later on that afternoon, I met Uncle Richard when he came over to visit us. Uncle Richard made me laughing. He looked healthy back then. The color of his hair was about started to develop a silver. About 2 months later, May 1982, I attended to a wedding of Richard’s daughter, Jeanne, with my parents. Jeanne was about to marry Jamie, a computer whiz. An outdoor wedding took a place at Mt. Tamalpais State Park, north of San Francisco, but the weather turned out cold and foggy. I dressed up pretty that I wore for Easter. I recall witnessing Uncle Richard walked down the aisle with Jeanne in her mother’s wedding gown on a ground of the hill. Richard looked so good in his black tux. LOL! After the wedding ceremony, we went to a reception in Sausalito at the bay. So many wedding guests were flocked there and had a good time. They danced for hours. Wow! The band was loud. I was sitting in the lightweight wheelchair. Richard danced a lot but I hadn’t noticed in him much. He chatted with wedding guests a lot.
I saw Uncle Richard again in Washington, D.C. in the late summer of 1989. We were there for our family reunion on the Labor Day weekend. I was a new student at a college at that time and was just graduated from Seabreeze High School 2 months earlier. I just found out Uncle Richard is remarried to Joan, his 2nd wife, on Father’s Day in that same year. Uncle Richard and his 2 other brothers, Jack and Joe, were staying at the same

major hotel with their family. My Dad, brothers Joe and David, and I were staying there, too. Bob, Richard’s other brother, lived at his home in Bethesda, Maryland. Bob was not visiting at our hotel to chat us because he had an Alzheimer’s disease. We were having a social in the lobby of our hotel one night (see the photo on the right, L to R: Richard, Jack, Dad, and Joe). We ate snacks and drank and chatted. We had a family reunion dinner at another place the next night. On Sunday, the family reunion was having a huge picnic at the park outside Washington, D.C. I can’t remember seeing Uncle Richard doing something at the park. I guess he chatted and played all day.
Both Bob and Joe are deceased now. Bob passed away in about either 1991 or 1992. Joe died of heart attack in December 1994.